Category Archives: Mindset

Cold Turkey

There are many ways to go about creating a healthy diet change.

The most common is the cold turkey approach.

When people do this, they literally cut out all bad food and start a new completely clean diet. They quit “cold turkey.”

For some people this really works.

For others…well they can’t maintain it and end up back where they started usually in only a few short months if not weeks.

For many the widely accepted cold turkey approach just doesn’t work.

But you have to know yourself to know what kind of approach is going to work best for you. Do you know?

Have you tried the cold turkey approach before and had the diet fail?

Maybe it wasn’t the diet that didn’t work. Maybe it was the go all in, drastic change approach that was the problem.

So maybe you aren’t a cold turkey kind of person. That doesn’t mean you can’t change your lifestyle! You just need to try a different approach!

Another great way to start a healthier lifestyle is to make small changes. I’ve talked about this approach before and I’ve found that, all in all, it works best when you aren’t looking for a quick fix but a true lifestyle change.

How does it work?

Basically, you make small changes until you’ve found a combination of healthy and unhealthy that you can handle that will get you the results you want. The combination that usually works to get great results, while keeping you from going insane, is 80% clean and 20% cheat. (Reaching 80/20 is the goal not what you should necessarily start out with…Perfect IS NOT the goal…80/20 is!)

Each week or two you try to cut out one bad thing slowly and replace it with something good. For instance, if you drink soda, you could start by cutting out all soda for the week (go cold turkey) OR you could simply cut out one soda per day for the first week and then all soda three days a week the next week and so forth until you’ve removed all soda from your diet except for the occasional cheat!

This can honestly be done with anything. It can even be done in terms of adding in good things! Like even if you really don’t like veggies, maybe you start by adding in veggies to one meal every other week. Then one meal every day. Then two meals every day…and so forth.

Small changes add up quickly!

And usually when you make small changes, they really really take root! You’ve actually TAUGHT yourself to live with the new lifestyle.

Sometimes when you go cold turkey, you get sick of the diet. And so you cheat. But most of the time, you can’t get yourself to go back to that super strict diet and so you fall off the wagon until you find another diet to try and go cold turkey with that!

Most of the time when people go cold turkey they seek perfection!

When you make small changes, you aren’t looking for perfection. You are looking to become better – to become healthier!

So next time you start a diet, think about making small changes instead of going cold turkey. Don’t seek perfection! Remember the 80/20 rule!

Act as if

So one of the things that really stuck with me from the Training for Warriors course was the statement “act as if.”

Martin mentioned that “you will become what you act.”

I live by this statement.

I truly believe that if you “act” confident/strong/happy you will BE confident/strong/happy.

It doesn’t happen overnight.

It takes time…It takes action.

I’ve said it before….you’ve got to fake it till you make it.

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If you want to actually be confident, you’ve got to act the part.

It means telling yourself everyday about the great things that you do. It means presenting a confident appearance to those around you. It means FAKING the confidence.

And before you know it, you won’t be faking it. Somewhere along the way, you will fall for your own story. You will actually start BEING confident.

It sounds strange, but what you are actually doing is fooling yourself into believing something, which in turn ends up making it true.

You aren’t lying to yourself. You aren’t just telling yourself, “Oh I’m so confident.”

You are actually acting the part. You are standing tall. Walking with confidence. Speaking with confidence.

You are fooling yourself into believing in yourself because you are ACTING the part.

You are faking the confidence, putting on the act, until you finally realize that it is no longer an act – You’ve gotten to be the person you’ve wanted and worked to be!

So whatever your resolution for this new year is, don’t give up yet. Take a new approach.

Want to be a person who lives a healthy lifestyle? Tell yourself you are and start doing things that a person who lives a healthy style would do.

Soon you won’t be acting the part. Soon you will be committed to being that healthy person!

Fake it till you make it!

No

How many times a day do you say the word “no?”

More importantly, how many times a day do you tell yourself the word “no?”

I bet it’s a lot…and I mean A LOT.

No I can’t run faster. No I can’t lift more. No I can’t…..No I won’t….No I’m too tired…too stressed…too…

STOP WITH THE SELF DOUBT AND EXCUSES!

“No” can be one of the most destructive words.

When you tell yourself “no,” you are basically telling yourself that you don’t believe in yourself.

You are telling yourself that you can’t do something before you’ve even tried.

You aren’t even giving yourself a chance!!! You don’t KNOW if you can do it because instead of trying you say, “NO…I can’t.”

I see it every day.

And you know what my response almost 100% of the time is? “Well try and we will see!”

And guess what?

Most of the time when people actually give themselves a chance, they prove they CAN in fact do it!

So then if most of the time we actually CAN do something, why are we constantly putting ourselves down by saying “no?”

Are we afraid to fail? Do we not want to work hard? Are we worried more about how others view us than how we view ourselves?

WHAT IS IT!?!

Honestly, it’s probably a big combination of the things above as well as the fact that many of us DON’T have confidence in our own abilities.

We are usually our own hardest critic.

And our stupid self-doubt usually keeps us from accomplishing half of what we can actually do.

And if you don’t believe in you, why should anyone else?

So starting this weekend, stop holding yourself back with the word “no” when you workout…or in life for that matter.

Try pushing yourself even if it means failure. Give yourself a chance!!!

I mean…what’s worse…Trying and failing or never trying at all?

I’d rather try and fail and get back up then wish I’d tried at all!