The Difference between Diet and Lifestyle – Part I

You’ll run into people who have adopted a new eating/exercise plan who will claim they’ve made a “lifestyle change.”

But have they really?

Because I change my diet and exercise program doesn’t mean I’ve changed my lifestyle. I’ve changed my diet numerous times throughout my life and I’ve even changed my opinions about what is HEALTHY, but I’ve NEVER changed my lifestyle.

My lifestyle has always been one focused on health and activity.

Even on vacations the things I want to do the most revolve around this.

Farmers market – FRESH, LOCAL, ORGANIC

Hiking along the beach looking at the tide pools.

Barefoot is better.

So next time you think about saying you’ve changed your “lifestyle” because you’ve adopted a new diet, take a really good look at whether or not things have truly changed. Have you truly changed your “lifestyle?”

And if you haven’t changed your lifestyle, do you really think you’ll be able to stick to this new healthy diet if the rest of your life doesn’t reflect the same beliefs?

Off to Cali!

So tomorrow Ryan and I are heading off to Cali for vacation. YAY!

I’m so excited because we will be able to workout outside and may even get to go paddle boarding!

It’s sort of a tradition for us to do The Murph each time we visit.

Try it!

Paddle boarding last summer.

The Murph

For time:

Run 1 mile

You can do the exercises in any order, but all reps must be completed before running the final mile.
100 pull ups
200 push ups
300 bodyweight squats

Run 1 mile

You starve yourself!?!

This is the common reaction I get when people find out that I occasionally fast.

Sometimes I fast for 16 hours. Sometimes I fast for 24.

But either way…I’M NOT STARVING MYSELF!

Actually there are lots of good things associated with fasting, including looking super sexy!

I mean have you SEEN Leangains!?! Or the author of Eat Stop Eat, Brad Pilon?!?

Leangains – Before fasting…and after fasting. I’ll give you one guess which is which!

Eat Stop Eat’s Brad Pilon…He looks pretty darn good too!

I mean shoot! Do you really need any more reasons to try fasting than those pictures!?!

I DON’T!

But if looking good isn’t enough, can I also say that I got stronger and WON a powerlifting competition while doing intermittent fasting?!?

Yep that’s right! I did intermittent fasting the couple of months before the competition and increased my maxes enough to win not only my weight class but also Overall Best Female Raw Lifter.

Not too shabby if I do say so myself!

Still not enough to convince you to try “starving yourself?”

How about all of these benefits of fasting, which include:

  1. Weight loss! Yes this is kind of the same thing as those guys looking good, but it is also the reason most people first go on a diet! For most people, fasting is actually easier to stick to than calorie restriction. Plus you preserve more lean muscle mass by fasting than through calorie restriction!
  2. Fight cancer!?! Yep fasting may actually help our bodies not only resist but also fight off cancer. More rats who fasted remained alive when injected with cancer – 16 of the rats who fasted survived while only 5 who didn’t survived. In a human study, patients also felt better when undergoing chemo if they fasted before and after. They suffered fewer side-effects when fasting than when they didn’t prior to chemo.
  3. Live longer. We’ve all heard that calorie restriction can help us live longer. Well if that is the case than fasting will make us live longer too! Of course, fasting doesn’t have the same “side-effects” that calorie restriction does. With fasting you will prevent the loss of lean muscle mass and bone mineral density. Sounds like two great benefits of fasting besides just a longevity!
  4. Brain health. Mark Mattson, Chief of the Laboratory of Neurosciences at the National Institute on Aging Intramural Research Program National Institute on Aging and a professor of Neuroscience at Johns Hopkins University, has released a number of papers  that suggest fasting can induce neurogenesis and protect against brain injury and disease. There are also studies showing that fasting may reduce the trauma to the brain caused by stroke and may also help improve the symptoms of Alzheimer’s Disease.
  5. Improved workouts. Ok I sort of already said this when I mentioned that I fasted to improve my performance for competition, but here are some studies to back it up! (Improved recovery and Leangains take on fasted training to just site a few!)

Here are some other great studies about the benefits of fasting that you should check out!

Fasting good for your health and your heart!

Fasting for longevity!

Fasting improved the long-term survival of patients who suffered chronic heart failure.

Fasting may even improve cholesterol?!?

Dieting – The Perfection of Imperfection

Lots of people pressure themselves to never cheat and to stick 100% to a diet.

These people also never manage to stick to a diet for very long.

The belief that you can maintain a PERFECT diet  is completely and utterly unrealistic especially if you plan to do the diet for any extended period of time.

This is what happens when you expect perfection out of your diet.

Instead I don’t plan on perfection. I plan on cheating.

I live by the 80/20 rule – I eat well 80% of the time and badly 20% of the time. Always have. Always will.

And I think you achieve the greatest success when you don’t expect yourself to be perfect. That frankly is just too much pressure and leads to failure.

You simply run out of self-control when you are working to maintain perfect. However, if you plan in a cheat day, you allow your self-control to recharge.

And if you PLAN in cheat days, not only do you recharge but you do DAMAGE CONTROL.

WHAT!?! By doing damage you are controlling the damage?

YEP!

When you plan in cheats and allow yourself to recharge, you prevent yourself from completely losing control and doing more damage than that one single cheat day would do.

I mean think about it…

When you feel super deprived, what do you do? You eat everything in sight and eat way too much because you’ve run out of self-control. And sometimes it takes you weeks or even months to get back on track.

On the other hand, if you plan in a cheat once a week, even if it is just a Primal cheat, such as dark chocolate and cheese, you quench your cravings enough that you don’t feel the need to stuff your face until you have a food baby! AND you also can go back to eating well the next day because you know you will get all that wonderful tasting food again in only a few days!

So what seems better?

I personally would rather plan to be good 80% of the time than plan to be good 100% of the time. Because I know that 80% is attainable while 100% simply isn’t.

Why set a goal that isn’t realistic when you can set yourself up to succeed and get great results while indulging 20% of the time!?!

Take a look at your diet? Do you always feel like you are falling off the bandwagon because you are expecting too much?

Some fun during a very long day

So I haven’t had any time to post today. Very very long day at work and now I’m just brain dead.

But I did do a few one arm pull ups. Candy even got one on video!

Now do one and send me your video!!!

The Man Bicep Mom Visits Boston

My mom came to visit this weekend!

One of the few people I look tall next to!!! 😉

We ate lots of deliciously non Primal food. Walked around a ton (and went shopping!). Did an hour of cycling and lifted heavy weights.

The Man Bicep Mom took her first spin class and did 3 pull ups even though she never does them! AWESOME!

It was all in all – WONDERFUL.

A couple of “observations” from this weekend:

  1. We are killing our kids by letting them eat crap and be lazy bums on the couch.
  2. It is SUPER easy to eat Primally at almost any “nicer” restaurant. I mean honestly, you really have no excuse not to stick to your diet.
  3. Circuit training really does prepare you for any physical activity.
  4. Getting older shouldn’t mean just accepting physical decline.

Ok…so let’s start off with the first observation.

My mom and I went to Mike’s Pastry in the North End. It is sort of a tradition for us when she comes to visit. We get chocolate covered cannoli and cappuccinos and we sit and gossip at a table in the bakery for hours.

This last time when we were there, a hoard of 13-14 year olds came swarming in. They were probably on a field trip in the North End – seeing the Old North Church and some of the other landmarks in the area.

What surprised me was the fact that all of the kids were allowed to get HUGE pastries.

And the other thing that surprised me was that about 80% of the children were overweight.

I’m sorry if this sounds mean, but what popped into my head was “Why are these kids being allowed to eat this when they should be outside on this wonderful day running around?”

Why was eating crap at Mike’s Pastry part of this classes field trip? Was this really necessary? Why at least didn’t they take the snacks outside somewhere where they could also run around?

Am I the only one sort of sickened by the fact that the adults and parents didn’t seem to care that their kids were out of shape and really shouldn’t be eating all of the crap? Am I over-thinking this whole incident?

Ok observation number two…It is super easy to eat well at any nice restaurant.

I’ve found it to be very interesting that at nice restaurants they cook mostly Primal foods. Usually they don’t even cook things in vegetable oils, but instead use lard and butter and olive oil.

Also, unless you go to an Italian restaurant, there really aren’t even that many carbs on the menu. At steak houses, they generally serve potatoes. At seafood places, it is usually potatoes or maybe even rice.

And at this restaurant Clio that we went to, there were only even a handful of non-vegetable/fruit carbs served throughout the entire 7 course meal! There were only a few potatoes and parsnips served in a couple of dishes. No rice. No bread. No pasta.

No excuse to really cheat on your diet.

So if culinary tradition says we should cook with animal fats and barely serve any carbs besides fruits and vegetables, why do we load down every meal with carbs and vegetable oils? When did cooking with processed crap and carbs become the norm while only restaurants run by Iron Chefs cook with whole foods?

Don’t you think there is a reason that our culinary tradition avoids using a ton of wheat and vegetable oils? To me this is just more proof of how right the whole idea of eating more “Primally” is.

So my third observation has to do with the Man Bicep Mom. My mom does weight training and plyometric circuits. She never does pull ups and she has never taken a spin class. She also has never done any powerlifting. Yet today she did all three…pretty easily actually.

She survived an hour of spin that would be difficult for even an advanced cyclist (trust me I know…I had people who spin all of the time in my class today who looked like they were dying).

She then also did some powerlifting and busted out three pull ups even though she literally never does them.

Why could she do all of this so easily?

Her weight training and cardio circuits!

She does fast paced circuits that pretty much incorporate everything. She uses dvds from The Firm, which I might add are great for a home exerciser who doesn’t necessarily want to only do powerlifting moves.

The circuits include weights and plyometrics, kettlebells, yoga and even Pilates. They really strengthen the entire body.

And because she is doing all of these different things to build her strength and cardiovascular endurance, she had no problem doing the spinning or the weight training.

I have people who attempt their first spin class after only doing hours of cardio who struggle. And you wouldn’t think they would, would you?

But they do. They aren’t prepared for the short bursts of high intensity sprints. They aren’t prepared for adding a ton of resistance as they climb a hill. They legs aren’t prepared for jumps or even isolation.

They aren’t prepared because they are only used to one thing – long, chronic cardio.

But the Man Bicep Mom? She was prepared. The plyometric drills included in her circuits prepared her for sprint intervals. Her weight training strengthened her legs and core so she could climb hills and easily stabilize her body in and out of the saddle.

Her body was used to variety and used to being pushed.

So if you want to be a renaissance fitness woman,  you’ve got to do circuits and mix it up! Even if you love running, throw in some weight training circuits every once in a while! They will even help your running!!!!

This all leads to my fourth and finally observation for this weekend – Age isn’t an excuse for being out of shape PERIOD. End of story. That’s it.

I have clients that say to me, “Well I’m ____age. I’m not going to be able to do the same things I did when I was young.

Can I just say that the statement above is absolute HORSE SHIT!?! (Sorry but it honestly is.)

Yes your body is going to age. Yes some things may become more difficult and you may decide you don’t like doing certain exercises any more because they do bother your body more.

But you can still be fit and as physically able as when you were young.

Don’t believe me? Just go look at the Man Bicep Mom posts! Just read what I wrote above!

I mean even just today my mom said that she honestly didn’t feel any different from when she was younger except that sometimes she feels like she gets out of shape a bit faster when she takes time off.

So next time you think you can’t do a physical activity because of your age, think about hitting the gym a couple of times a week. A little hard work in the gym can go a long way toward better quality of life and renewed physical strength. You may even find that some great circuit training will make you stronger and help you move better than you even did when you were younger!

So age is no excuse! Workout and stay young!

Anyway, I hope all of you Man Bicepers out there had just as wonderful a weekend with someone close to you as I did. 🙂

Top 5 Essential Exercises

So after seeing the post on Whole9 about the top five foundational movements for health, I decided to ask some of the staff at my gym what their top 5 would be. It is interesting to see the similarities, but also the differences between the lists.
These variations in what people consider the top 5 come occur for numerous reasons. To name a couple: personal biases (ahem…Candy with pull ups because she really doesn’t like them) and fitness goals.
Trainers also come from different fitness backgrounds. For example, I want to be able to lift a ton of weight and do any physical activity asked of me. So in my opinion, there is no need to do planks since almost every other move works your core. I want to only do moves that will increase my strength and my ability to take on any activity!
Nick on the other hand doesn’t care how much weight he can lift. He would rather look good and be a world champion in Brazilian Ju-Jitsu. Can’t really blame him! He is an awesome fighter! Nick has a background in self-defense and is very focused on injury prevention so he focuses on strengthening the core, which is why he has planks in his top 5.
The thing that is similar between all of the lists, is that all the moves selected really work the entire body. They may have a “focus,” but they do work almost every other muscle group. Even planks work more than just your core (abs and low back). They also work your shoulders and quads to just name a few other muscles!
Take a look over our lists and the ones on Whole9! What would you add to yours?
My Top 5:
  1. Deadlift – My favorite exercise! Great way to develop overall strength!
  2. Push up – Great upper body and core move! Plus it is super functional. Everyone should be able to press themselves up from the ground!
  3. Pull up – One of the hardest exercises in my opinion, which also makes it one of the best. Increase your upper body strength and strengthen your core! Plus, if you ever want to go rock climbing or even just fall over a cliff, you can pull yourself up! 😉
  4. Squats – Ok I’m cheating a bit here because I think that back squat, front squat and overhead squat are all really good. If I had to pick just one though, I would pick front squat. It honestly is the best to develop upper back strength, core strength and leg strength. Plus with deadlift on the list, it isn’t bad to have a squat that is more quad focused.
  5. Sprints – A super intense, efficient way to get in cardio! It also helps you develop your type II muscle fibers and a strong cardiovascular system. The only cardio I love to do.
And if I were to make mine a Top 10, I would also add: Burpees, Cleans to Press, Back Rows, Dips and pistol squats (or 1 leg squats). Those are all awesome moves that really work the whole body!

Brian’s Top 5

  1. Push up
  2. Pull up
  3. Clean to Jerk
  4. Lunge – A great way to work the lower body but not let one leg dominate and become stronger.
  5. Sprints

Nick’s Top 5

  1. Planks – A great exercise especially if you are in a sport that requires great core strength. It is also an essential move for all beginner exercisers!!
  2. Push ups
  3. Squats
  4. Pull ups
  5. Clean to Press

Candy’s Top 5

  1. Push ups
  2. Deadlift
  3. Clean to Press – A great power move that is similar to the deadlift but does more to strengthen your type II muscle fibers. The press is also a great upper body move that really strengthens the core!
  4. Sprints
  5. Front squats

Yoga…I love you, but I hate you

Tonight I’m teaching my first ever yoga class. Ok…It’s spinning then a half hour of yoga, but still…I have to teach yoga.

I’ve done yoga on my own. I’ve taken classes. But never did I EVER think I would teach yoga.

I like yoga. I think it is great for you.

But I also hate yoga. I do not find it relaxing in the least to hold any of the warrior poses. How can it be relaxing to hold a low lunge for like 30 seconds!?!

Uhm it isn’t!!!! Although I think most people don’t stay super low in their warrior poses….Am I wrong?

This is how I feel sometimes...

I think that I’m missing the “Zen” gene…just like I’m missing the “running” gene.

In both cases though, I do the exercises that I hate because I know they are good for me. Although I do try to skip them as often as possible.

I mean yoga especially is great for you – it makes you more flexible and helps you develop overall functional strength.

And yes, running to is good for you. Especially sprints!

I know these two things that I hate are good for me. AND I DO THEM BOTH (Just as little as possible to actually be able to say I do them!)

There are going to be exercises out there that you hate doing, but you can’t just not do things that are good for you!

Yeah sometimes eating healthy sucks. But you do it.

Yeah you love running and would rather run than ever do weights, but weights are good for you!

You can’t just skip things that are good for you!

You may not innately like weights just like I don’t like running or doing yoga. BUT you can develop a LOVE for them because you know they are good for you! You should do them because they are good for you!

And I bet you will grow to love/hate the exercises you avoid now as much as I have.

Try it! What exercises do you avoid even though you know they are good for you?

Working Out – It’s no beauty pageant!

I just want to start off by saying, “I sweat A LOT when I workout.”

I literally drip.

I’ve even been told I look like a drowned rat.

I would definitely not win any beauty pageants.

Why do you want to know this?

Actually you probably don’t. But too bad! (And I’m pretty sure I’ve said this before so it should come as no surprise!)

The reason I’m telling you this is because working hard in the gym isn’t always about looking good. You’ve got to get down and dirty to get some results.

Granted you don’t have to sweat as much as me, but working up a little sweat at least is good!

Actually, why is it that women seem so much more concerned with looking “cute” in the gym than men do? (Or maybe men actually think they look good in their stained armpit shirts….)

Don’t get me wrong here. I love cute gym clothes. I just can’t bring myself to care though how I look when I workout. I actually even like to try to save my cute workout clothes for when I’m not working out and instead wear big, old, stained t-shirts when I am!

What type of woman are you? Do you dress up for the gym? If you dress up for the gym, why do you do it?

Also, are cute workout clothes just another way for us to feminize the gym a bit more?…What do you think?

I Love Bacon

So a bit delayed, but as promised…here are a few BLTs that I’ve made over the past couple of weeks.

Take Me Out to the Ball Game – BLT

(I amused myself coming up with some of the names!)

So I made this hot dog with a parmesan crisp bun, but next time I would put the salad in the crisp and wrap the dog in lettuce.

Ingredients:

2 Applegate Organic Uncured Hot Dogs
4 slices nitrite free bacon
1/2 yellow onion
2 tbsp Sir Kensington’s ketchup
Yellow mustard to taste
Grated parmesan cheese
Grass-fed butter
4 cups arugula
4 jalapeno stuffed olives
1 tbsp Mitchell’s queso
2 tsp heavy whipping cream
2 tsp Salsa Verde

Cook bacon in pan until golden brown. Once bacon is cooked, remove from pan and cook hot dogs in the bacon grease. Once hot dogs are cooked, saute onions in remaining grease.

Stuff hot dog, bacon, onions, ketchup and mustard into a lettuce cups.

While bacon and hot dogs are cooking, make the parmesan crisps. Melt butter on a plate or bowl. Spread out parmesan cheese into an even layer on the plate or bowl. Cook in microwave until cheese starts to brown. Cool on paper towel. To form into a bowl, take the warm crisp and use bowl to shape sides.

Make the queso dressing by combining cream, salsa and queso. Combine lettuce, olives and queso dressing and serve in parmesan crisp bowl.

A loose version of a BLT….the salad is the “L” and the ketchup is the “T!” 🙂

Southwest Steak BLT Salad

Ingredients:

1lbs shaved steak
4 slices bacon
Cumin, smoked paprika, pepper, onion salt
1/2 tomato
1/2 yellow onion
2 tsp olive oil
Salt to taste
1 avocado
1 tsp Salsa Verde
1 tsp heavy whipping cream
1 tsp garlic
1/4 cup red salsa
Iceberg lettuce

Cook bacon in a pan. Use the bacon grease to then cook the shaved steak with cumin, paprika, pepper and onion salt to taste.

While steak is cooking, make the pico de gallo and guacamole. Dice tomatoes and onions. Combine in olive oil with a pinch of salt. Set aside to top salad.

To make the guacamole, mash up the avocado, cream, salsa verde and garlic.

Place lettuce leaves on plate to make a “bowl.” Top with shaved steak, chopped bacon, pico de gallo, guacamole and some of your favorite red salsa. YUM!

Deconstructed Cheeseburger BLT

Ingredients:

1lbs ground beef
4 slices bacon
Cumin, chili powder, Adobo seasoning, garlic to taste
1/2 tbsp yellow mustard
1/2 tbsp spicy brown mustard
1/2 tbsp organic ketchup
1 tsp olive oil
Pinch of onion salt
Parmesan cheese
Grass-fed butter
1 cup arugula

Cook bacon in pan. Use the remaining grease to cook ground beef. Season the ground beef with cumin, chili powder, adobo seasoning and garlic.

While ground beef is cooking, make the parmesan crisps. See directions above in the Ball Park BLT recipe.

Once parmesan crisp bowls are made and cooled, top with arugula. Add cooked ground beef and crumbled bacon on top.

Combine mustards, ketchup, olive oil and onion salt. Top bacon and ground beef with sauce.

I served this deconstructed bacon cheeseburger with brussel sprouts and onions cooked in grass-fed butter.

Anyone else make BLT’s during National BLT Month!?!

No? Well you still have time!